This is really tough. Starsky, I know u have a lot of experience & r well respected around here but ur advice is complete opposite of the DBing coach has advised me multiple times. Specifically to experiment & do what works to draw him in. I'm not saying I am changing anything at this point. Just trying to make sense of it allw


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14