I am concerned that this approach is conflicting with showing him consistent changes. Rejection was a big issue for him, I'm sure he sees my coolness as some rejection. I'm not going to do anything different at this point & just see how it plays out for awhile. I'll keep posting updates & to document for myself


M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14