Thanks for the kind words m! Bad day today. Of course my W picks our D's birthday to do it, she is moving into "her" new place. If she hadn't done this, now that things are picking up for me at my new company, we could have sent our D14 to the school we wanted, paid for D19's college and still been able to save enough to get the new, bigger house she wants so badly. Of course she can't wait or work towards what she wants. She must have it NOW.
She is just taking things that don't belong to her. Last night she said the silverware her GM gave us as a wedding present belong to her. Yes, it was for our wedding but she says she really wanted HER to have it, not us! What crap. Also, wouldn't hold up in D court but she wants it so it must belong to her. We have replaced many lost pieces over the years that was bought with OUR money (and I was the one working while she didn't for a large majority of that time).
Just a really bad, bad day all around. It really is the end of our 25 years together and she has no regrets or 2nd thoughts.
Tad, did your exW talk like that before b-day? Did she use that kind of language before her MLC? Was she a good, caring mother? Just wondering how big a change she went through. Thanks.
