Originally Posted By: Maybell
Thank, Loualea, it's been a work in progress, not to mention not a completely consistent state of being.

Also, I was going to add, the incident while we were dating suggests that my desires are not his number one priority?

I'd focus more on what it meant from your POV for you and things you have control over. If I remember, whatever the event was, you didn't go either but the issue was forced to a point where you were both so unhappy that you broke up.

Was the event more important than your R?

If he didn't want to go could you have attended by yourself?

Do you think he felt heard?

and...should your desires be his number one priority?

Last edited by labug; 06/21/14 02:13 PM.
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