Thanks Ben. But don't you think it would just be considerate if she let's me know a little? Hate feeling like a doormat. 180 to me is like Mr. Nice Guy turning into Mr. Mean Guy or Mr. DGAS Guy. So not me. But I do agree the technique is valid.
Got a question for you all. WAS comes down to my living quarters and we cook together sometimes when she's home. Is this a good thing or a not so good thing if I am trying to detach. I almost want to tell her to stop because it hurts when she leaves back to her part of the house(upstairs).