I would think wishing him a fun weekend and a nice time, will play on his mind. The person who wants him wishing him a great time will not be what he expects.
I've said it by text to my h, a friend said " that's mean you probly ruined his whole weekend, he will/ should be wondering why you said it and what you meant! " the funny part is now I mean it, if he really wants to leave me and I have to suffer all the crap he better be having a great time.
Haha that made me laugh that he better have a great time. It's sad for me bc they are traveling for BMX. Which we always did with our boys and all the other families. Now he is taking her. And still hanging out whth them. They've all said if that's what makes him happy we aren't getting involved he's still our friend if he chooses to bring her so be it.
