Fear is my struggle too! I feel it everyday! Everyone here feels fear. Detaching is so scary for me too!
I love my WAW so much that sometimes I hurt physically. My stomach is often in knots. It feels just like the feeling you get when you are on a scary rollercoaster or about to give a speech to a stadium full of people. It's anxiety (fear).
You're no different from me or anyone else here.
Every single person that saved their marriage here, went through a ton of pain to get there.
You can do this TO. Will it hurt like hell? Yes. Do you love your WAH enough to go through this process?
