I'm sorry, I want you to succeed at saving your marriage, so please don't take offense to what I'm going to tell you.
You are pursuing, plain and simple. Go back and read the Last Resort Technique in Divorce Remedy. Do you know why he didn't respond to pic of S3? Because he KNOWS he can have you back any time he wants. He has to FEEL like he is losing YOU.
I know you need to respond to texts regarding the kids. Keep your answers to "yes" or "no" or "the game starts at 4pm".
PLEASE do not text anything other than responses that make it appear like you are DONE and fed up with his bullsh!t! NO pics of kids, nothing!
I'm not saying to text angry responses, text responses like you don't care anymore. Like maybe you met some ripped stud who is falling in love with you! Or you suddenly realized how much better life is without him!
Get angry! He left you and kids for a effin' 18 year old! You don't deserve this crap!
Until you can do that, I really don't see any reason why your WAH would want to change. He has the best of both worlds! He has an 18 year old gf, and a loyal wife at home waiting for him in case things don't work out with her!
I promise you, he knows how bad you want him, it's obvious in your messages and what you type here.
I'm sorry for the tough love. Like I said, I want you to succeed and get your WAH back.
PLEASE, let him go! It's the ONLY way to get him back.
