Sandi - am I wasting my time? I have asked my lawyer to move slow with the divorce from our end but not to impede anything. Should I just go through with it? I know you don't know him but am I am idiot for wanting/thinking I might be able to save our marriage
I know this is directed to Sandi, but if I may jump in:
The actual divorce can take as long as you want it to.... but the conditions during the separation need to be taken care of 2 months ago (parenting plan, sole use of house, finances,etc.)... you seem to be swimming in a bunch of ambiguity with him (especially regarding consistency and structure for his time with the kids).
BTW, did you ever consult your other attorneys regarding the no contact order for 18girl?
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13