I'm sorry to hear s had a seizure and am glad he's okay. I know that must be difficult when it happens when you are away. You are a wonderful mom to s and to the ss as well. You are strong, nurturing , attentive and work hard. You are setting a great example for them.
It's always wise to talk to a L. Protecting yourself and kids is smart. Now, of course your h knows what your hot buttons are. It is well known that kids will act out and lash out to the parent they feel safe with ( I witness this frequently).
Your h is a mess and you cannot fix him. It's tempting to try for us fixers isn't it? However, it's like trying to find the needle in the haystack. Not happening.
Keep focusing on Julie and what Julie wants. Your a and ss ( plural) are lucky to have you :-)
Last edited by Georgiabelle; 06/21/1401:20 AM.
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
