I'm Just About Ready For The Fork

[tadpole1025]

Ug....still have heard nothing about the job. Now that it is Friday, I'm guessing I won't hear anything until next week now.

I'm pretty bothered today. I'll explain:

A couple of weeks ago XW and S23 got into a pretty bad argument. It was basically him chewing her out about all that has happened.

Today, for the first time since Valentine's Day, she came over to pick up S19 for the weekend. All four of the boys were home, but S21 was sleeping because he works overnights.

When she got here, S19 and S28 went out to greet her and visit for a few. She asked about S21, but he was sleeping and did not go out. After she left, S23 asked S28 if she asked to see him. She did NOT. I can tell that it really bothered him. It seemed to bother him a lot.

What can I do?

I felt really bad for him.

Even as much as I have lost, I think in the long run, she is losing and will lose so much more. I'm also realizing that even though our boys are grown, this has really affected them too. They basically have no mother. She has hurt me AND THEM more than she'll ever know. Or atleast more than she'll ever know for a while...

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