We all have experienced waves as they crash around our heads. Sometimes it sure feels like all hope is lost. Then something shifts. That is the crazy zig zag pattern of dealing with a WAS. It is called the DB Rollercoaster for a good reason!
Originally Posted By: Ben2010
This is the step before D and I never saw this coming
Separation doesn't necessarily mean a direct step toward D. This isn't always a linear process as you would think getting from point A to B as a logical process from a mathematical perspective. In DB land, it doesn't always work that way.
Which is why it is VITALLY important to keep working on you, reading posts here, re-reading DR book, and monitor baby steps.
Don't give up that easily, Ben. Or I'll start whispering "What a wuss" in your ear! Smile...not really. But seriously, you've got to keep your own faith alive.
Meanwhile Im stuck at home or at my brother's house because I have alienated myself from friends and now only have about 2.
This comment jumped out at me. What caused the alienation? How did this come about? Let's talk this out here so we can be more helpful with some suggestions, insights and tips. 'K?
