Claire, so glad your sense of self-worth has improved so much. And that you have a clearer sense of how your past brought you to this place. No matter what happens, those two things are huge.
I know what you mean about 5LL. I had the same issue. Our first MC did try to get us to do the worksheet, but my H is so clueless about what's important to him that he actually got completely even scores across the board, except that supposedly my appearance isn't that important to him. Mine was clearer but he wasn't really interested in learning how to implement 5LL ("I am who I am") so it wasn't like it helped at all. His desire to meet my needs is one of the dealbreakers on my list.
You are doing really well!
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
