Nope, we were close to being engaged. Looking at homes with a realtor, churches to get married at (the church she misses).
Some of the vets that REALLY helped me are: Mach1, Spartan, Wonka, MrBond. I would encourage you to reach out to them and introduce yourself.
Their advice is TOUGH to implement but they have been exactly where we are and we can be taught to avoid the mistakes that they made were they were newbies.