well if that's the case...my h hasn't said I'd be getting any for vd and I'm not waisting my time thinking I will, sure the gifts I got him do lead toward it but I'm planning on just taking the day as it comes.
on the topic of being told you'll get some...
so many times I've been given the "I'll get ya tomorrow night when I'm not so tired" line plenty of times to have tomorrow turn into a week or so later leaving me to think...gee if ya had just accepted the advance then and not brushed it off til "tomorrow" I wouldn't be feeling resentful (a feeling we all know cemar can relate too) when you do get around to it.
all I can say grislen is go in expecting nothing without the frustration of having been lead to believe you would and you may find yourself pleasantly surprized.
