Thank, Loualea, it's been a work in progress, not to mention not a completely consistent state of being.

Also, I was going to add, the incident while we were dating suggests that my desires are not his number one priority?

Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.