My first question is...Can't he do anything by himself as a father? It's very evident that he relied heavily on you to take care of everything. WH, you have to find a way to step back and let him learn how to be a father and to communicate w/his children. If you continue to rescue him, he'll never learn and you'll not be able to move on w/your life because he will be constantly calling you about every little thing. I know you want to be there for the children, but setting up an email account that both of you can access is so easy and it can be done at either place w/o you going over there and being physically present.

I swear, it's almost like he doesn't want you to have one moment's peace and he definitely doesn't want you to move on and enjoy your life being a single woman. Such a shame. A lot of this drama he's created could have all been avoided had he just settled himself down.

Try to enjoy your weekend and do not answer his calls or text messages because you have the children w/you and there is no need for him to call you. Time for him to face the consequences of his actions.


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.