He's the father you chose for your children so there's a reason to stay. I don't mean stay married but your kids and he deserve a R.

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Well, no f-in clue what the heck is going on now

The same thing that's been going on since 2011.

Getting him to commit to things in writing won't help you.

You've both created this R as you explain in this post:
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he's not giving this the attention and urgency it needs which would be so typical for him. And I'm done with his typical, lazy, inattentive, irresponsible, unhelpful, uninvolved behavior. I've been warning him for months now that I'm really reaching the point where I'm fed up with him


And you continued to have sex with him and have another baby.

You've been here since 2011-what have you learned, what have you changed, what are your goals?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss