You can and should have goals, living in the now doesn't mean you don't have goals.

K, what is something you've always wanted to learn or do? What are your passions, things that make you feel alive?

Come up with 2 and find out how you can get involved in those things. Does your city offer lower cost classes/activities for adults through Parks & Rec?

And then there's meetup dot com

Put yourself out there, get to know people(M&F) who enjoy the same things you do.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss