afraid I have waited too long #3

[nit84]

Well it seems as though my W is going away for the weekend

Seeing that she has a suitcase packed and all.

She is using her own money so no problem there but we have a hearing next week to determine how much I must pay her per month and pay for her L fees(I think I already have in an accounting sorta way) till we are D so that she can live a normal life and maybe get her own place till then. It just stinks because she has yet to give me any money towards June bills which are paid and I have moved on to paying July's stuff.

It appears that she is making enough money to enjoy herself while I am fretting a bit on how in about 3 months I may have to get a second job to pay all the household bills.

I have never had anyone close to me go through this type of hearing. It seems like a simple calculation of what I make in my paycheck vs what she makes in her paycheck(not counting under the table money which I think may still be getting paid).


It is somewhat frustrating that she is the one who wants out but I am the one who is going to foot the bill.


Anybody been through this before? Just trying to understand how scr**ed I am and why it has to be that way.

I feel I have good L but I am not sure that will matter.