It's the detach bit I'm not sure about. I'm still waiting for the DB book to arive, I presumed there's something in there. What I'm not clear about (actually that's just about everything right now) is how detached? Do I not talk about it with her? Do I move out? I don't think that's what it means as I've seen other advice saying don't do that. At least I'm still at home at weekends. How do I act? Just getting through the day is an acheivement at the moment.
Getting through the going dark thread bit by bit. It's starting to make sense now I've come across people with a similar personality and position.
I was wondering how I could do that if I'm stil living at home (at the weekends anyway) and if I was already quite dark - not too much passion, drive, being in emotionally - in the first place.
Just be a good dad, be polite, courteous and friendly. Do not ask for anything. Printed off (and hidden) sandi2's 37 rules to firm up the understanding.
M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
