Came across this in an old thread and it resonated with me especially in relation to Betsey's advice:

""Regardless of our marriage problems, it would be a shame to throw away a friendship, you can never have too many friends"

M:36 W:34
T:9,M:4
Me,WAH:7/2011
My apology:12/2012
Her,WAW:01/2013
ILYBINILWY:4/2013
W's EA:5/2013
Sep:9/2013
2nd EA signs:03/2014