Dealing with an ongoing affair

[PeterV2]

We took mum to the airport today. Mum's now gone back to South Africa. Maybe for up to 4 years. W was very emotional. Still is. After we got back from the airport we had a nap together. Then I went to work. Called her just now and she's still very emotional. I offered to come by just to talk. She'll think about it and call me back.
2 days ago she had a session with our MC and yesterday I has a session. She has an anger problem. Apparently I have a selfishness problem. When each of us can clear those up then the space between us can heal faster. Working on that. She needs to get away to clear her head. I can see that. She needs a break. This is going to be a slow process. I'm working on the 7 step program in DR.
One day at a time.