Thank you soooo much sandi it means a lot to me and what you say makes sense. a few points:

1. Im the one who moved out not her.

2. How can I be indifferent without seeming cold?

3. If I may ask..as a WAW what was the turning point for you?

4. From what I wrote, is it possible for there to be no affair?

thanks again sandi!!!!

Me: 42
W: 39
D: 2 age 6 and 9
D-Day: Dec 29 13
Seperated: 3/20/14
Mediation retainer : 5/20/14
She filed: 06/25/14