Claire I see your point. Its just I never really thought we would end up divorcing (or in the process) this is all confusing to me. I could have been kinder to her. Trail and error, now I know what doesn't work, so I must remove that behavior.
Me: 42 W: 39 D: 2 age 6 and 9 D-Day: Dec 29 13 Seperated: 3/20/14 Mediation retainer : 5/20/14 She filed: 06/25/14