Claire I see your point. Its just I never really thought we would end up divorcing (or in the process) this is all confusing to me. I could have been kinder to her. Trail and error, now I know what doesn't work, so I must remove that behavior.


Me: 42
W: 39
D: 2 age 6 and 9
D-Day: Dec 29 13
Seperated: 3/20/14
Mediation retainer : 5/20/14
She filed: 06/25/14