The LRT is from the book, I added a few things here and there but I see it as detachment, it is hard and im not gonna lie when I say that I have made many mistakes during this process. that is why I seek opinions from all here. I see it as a way for me to move on with my life, I guess hoping she will see that as well, I know I shouldn't care if she sees it or not but it is hard when you Love the person.
about going dark...I meant in everything else besides the kids, I guess you are right that you cant go dark with kids..lets call it going Dusk...
No professional, just a friend of mine that would follow her.
sandi2 thank you for answering...seeing her perspective from a former WAW will really help me to not be a jerk at times when she reaches out.
Me: 42 W: 39 D: 2 age 6 and 9 D-Day: Dec 29 13 Seperated: 3/20/14 Mediation retainer : 5/20/14 She filed: 06/25/14