Hi Sandi2...thank you for coming by.

The LRT is from the book, I added a few things here and there but I see it as detachment, it is hard and im not gonna lie when I say that I have made many mistakes during this process. that is why I seek opinions from all here. I see it as a way for me to move on with my life, I guess hoping she will see that as well, I know I shouldn't care if she sees it or not but it is hard when you Love the person.

about going dark...I meant in everything else besides the kids, I guess you are right that you cant go dark with kids..lets call it going Dusk...

No professional, just a friend of mine that would follow her.

sandi2 thank you for answering...seeing her perspective from a former WAW will really help me to not be a jerk at times when she reaches out.


Me: 42
W: 39
D: 2 age 6 and 9
D-Day: Dec 29 13
Seperated: 3/20/14
Mediation retainer : 5/20/14
She filed: 06/25/14