JL, I hope that all is well with you today. I was just reading your thread, and wondering what it was that made you think that your H is still seeing OW. Instinct, did someone see them out, or just the fact that he had a late meeting and you just don't trust him the way that you used to?
If the OW is still involved, you have to make the decision as to whether it is something that you will put up with or not.
You know that I know exactly how you feel. I am still there, and for me, H can't have a R with me while he is living with her. Not anything more than friends anyway. There is nothing like being dumped twice by your H.
You and I have been at this a long time. That damn rollercoaster!!
It's true that your H may need to see her to make a decision about the direction that he wants his life to take. He may also be having his cake and eating it too.
So.....perhaps you should read the chapter on infidelity again. Maybe it will give you some help in talking with him. You have to learn to trust him again, and he has to earn your trust. If he is lying to you again about her....well let's just say that I hope he can be honest with you so that you can decide which direction you want your life to take.
Take care of yourself and I am saying a little prayer for you.
