She says she's conflicted

[MrBond]

While he's stressing over her, you can be the opposite and be casual, cool and fun. Do it with no expectations. Every now and then, tell her, 'hey, I was going to grab a drink if you want to come along", and if she says no, then just smile and say just though I'd ask, then you go out and have the time of your life. No expectations. She has to see you enjoy yourself rather than obsessing over her.