Well it seems that me detaching and not always being there for WAW has hit her hard. I informed her that I would be stopping mortgage payments but starting paying child maintenance as I need my own place and because our house is lost ie negative equity by 48,000 etc. She asked could I help pay her deposit plus go as guarantor on a new place for her and she doesn't have anyone despite having a big family. I said no as I can't take risk of her temporary job ending and me being left to pay her rent. She went ballistic. Told me I'd have to take daughter full time and that this was all for D and not her. I stood my ground and said no. I simply have to concentrate on my life and a new home for me and D. Huge row which ended in me not giving in. I wonder what's next?!?!
M 35 W 31 D 10 Married 3 years Together 11 Single since Nov 13 Moved out Dec 13 ILYBNILWY, 'I don't want to be a boring housewife, 'I don't fancy you any more' OM confirmed Jun 14
