Old dog seeks new trick

[Ben2010]

W is away for another day and night on Saturday visiting friends so I will take the kids out to do something fun. There that is a goal. Yes :-)

Yeah that is a good idea. Try to keep PMA and Im sure the kids would enjoy that

And tomorrow I will busy myself with household chores that need doing. The place is always messy with stuff lying around because W is always tired. Another goal. Practical ones I grant you rather than head fixing ones.

While you are doing your chores try to think about some of the complaints your wife always had. See if there are some 180s that you can do to correct these. For me it would be shopping. I never liked shopping with her and wouldnt go. The other day I went out and bought myself some new clothes. She was not happy when she found out, even told me it pissed her off, but she will see that people can change.

Probably the most important thing for you right now is to give your wife some space and GAL. You started here very early like I did after the situation so you cant have made too many mistakes before coming here other than our initial reactions(crying, begging, pleading). That is normal though at first.

Make sure you get the DB/DR books. I also recommend The 5 Love Languages.