Like a moth to flame

[MrBond]

"I've been LRT for 5 weeks now. Wouldn't contacting her be considerered pursuing?"

I think you have to reread my post to you. There are many people who keep saying that they're in NC with their spouse and don't know when to stop that. If you keep NC, how do you plan to reconcile? How long do you keep up NC? There is no set time. The timing is up to you.

I did read your Father's Day message and this is where you didn't use NC effectively.

"Easy? No. I didn't want this WAH but I don't have any other option than to respect your decision. I want you to be happy."

This shows her that your whole life depends on her. STop doing that. You should have said that you were doing great and that you had plans for that night. And that's that.

BTW, you need to start a new thread as this one will probably lock soon.