Just thought I'd pop over for a visit. Looks like you need reminding of that ole word again - *Patience* !
It's like, this sh!t has happened, We can either turn our backs on our spouses and try as best we can to move on, or we can move on with our lives and keep that door open. The fact that you are prepared to DB and keep the door open for a while yet, speaks volumes about what you prefer. I guess evey day we are making evaluations about what we are trying to do and whether we are getting anywhere near it.
And while we don't have our husbands, there are SOOOOO many other things to be getting on with in our lives, right?
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
