Originally Posted By: BrightFuture
I’m not sitting around waiting for H to come to his senses. I have life, I’m moving forward. I just don’t understand how else I need to let go.

This is the subject that constantly comes to my mind. I think if I completely let go, I will not be on this board anymore.


I understand how you feel, Bright. I don’t think we can truly let go until we are DONE. We are not done.

Like you, I come here to find hope. Hope for a renewed marriage with a spouse who stood by me for decades. Also to help others who are seeking hope.

I agree that a DB board is not necessary for me to have a fulfilling life without my spouse. Maybe at first I needed that reassurance, but after 2 and a half years, I know better. Yet I stand because I know my wife is worth it... and there is still plenty of hope!



Last edited by ForeverYoung; 06/19/14 04:14 PM.

M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl