My fear is that the kids will get hurt. That is why I am not so sure about allowing him to help and join in family activities.
I plan on leaving him with the twins (I can't leave Lillian anyway) in the evening and doing whatever I want even if it just means going to a park and sit in the cast and read.
I can ask him to leave but can't force him to legally. And yes, I am a wimp and feel badly he has no where to go.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction