My fear is that the kids will get hurt. That is why I am not so sure about allowing him to help and join in family activities.

I plan on leaving him with the twins (I can't leave Lillian anyway) in the evening and doing whatever I want even if it just means going to a park and sit in the cast and read.

I can ask him to leave but can't force him to legally. And yes, I am a wimp and feel badly he has no where to go.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction