Well I been constantly reading over sandis rules and it says dont go to spouse for convo let them come to you..
I'm not sure if the one below is what you are thinking about, but maybe you misunderstood it?
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#15. When at home with your spouse, (if you usually start the conversation---then don't, wait for him/her) then, be rather scarce with your words, but don't sound rude or too short like you are mad. If your spouse asks what's wrong....just say "nothing" and have a pleasant expression on your face. Keep it short and simple. Don't get into an argument! Stay polite and don’t act like you are pouting. Use poise and class. This does not mean to act like you aren’t speaking, but don’t be overly talkative.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
