i find im ok for a few days then im a complete mess for a few days and this has been going on for 3 months , Its very hard on the head . She was giving me sex up to 3 weeks or so ago . now that has stopped . But when she took her ring off last weekend that was worse than anything . I cant get through to her not even a little bit . Nothing seems to matter except her feelings . Giving her space has helped marginally and i notice if im around too much she gets withdrawn and cranky . She seems to be able to handle me in small doses . Even conversation has become difficult


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )