Final appt with IC yesterday before vacay. We discussed how to handle myself on vacation again, be attractive, laid back, fun, flirty. Let him see the good he is walking away from. Other goals:
1) Don't speculate, only deal with what is coming at me 2) Don't let him lead, take control (meaning of my emotions) I guess that is the same as "act as if" 3) Invite him to do things, but do them regardless of what he does 4) IF I need to have a break down walk away and do it in private 5) Prepare only for the "Big" stuff, D talk or telling the kids and know how I'm going to respond
On another note I just spent $$ that I can't really afford on something that is so worth it! It's just the timing of it. Funny thing is it is an event with HIS family in Dec.
Went shopping yesterday with D15, I am getting a few cute things for my vacation...have to look attractive right! BUT, have been slacking in the working out and eating department. Gotta focus more on that, don't think I'm going to lose weight in a week...going to have to try to squeeze into my jeans! lol
Me-44 (45) H- 50 (51) M-'96
S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)
BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas) home Oct(sep rooms) (EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed) insists wants D through July 2015 no more talk of D since