S = separated. My W and I were living under the same roof and she was not pushing to change that. She was cake eating in a major way. I could not take the emotional stress of continuing that arrangement but was not going to leave the house and kids on my own. Plus I did not want to throw the kids into the situation all at once, so I was able to convince her that we could spend the summer with our respective parents and the kids could go back and forth. To them it would just be a big vacation while making the transition of mommy and daddy not being together much easier. The result for me was an unforeseen blessing in that out of sight makes detaching much easier. Especially since I am doing great on GAL.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
