JL, I'm happy to hear that you will be spending some of the weekend with your H and kids. I hope that you have a wonderful time.
I understand what you mean by expecting your H to ask or call. I guess we want to see some effort on their part. I felt the same way with my H. I wish he had made even a little effort. Your H seems to be trying. It's probably very awkward for him too. That will take a while to get past.
Anyway, have a very Happy New Year. I hope that this one brings you everything that you are hoping for in your marriage.