Originally Posted By: beatrice

He affects to believe that he has done nothing to complain about. Simply left a marriage that no longer worked for him, and that everyone else has an inexplicable problem with his behaviour and attitude. Mainly because I have poisoned them against him.

The narrative is delivered with such conviction that it makes the Gettysburgh address look amateurish


Bea, I choked on my lunch when i read your words.... my XH has said EXACTLY the same things.

He can't understand why our (teenage) kids want nothing to do with him, and keeps asking them:

'What have I done WRONG?'

(They are dumbstruck in response.)

He screams that I have poisoned them against him. He rails at me that I am 'appalling', and asks me how I sleep at night.

He is deeply convinced that he is the victim and that we are all 'the problem'.

It's really unbelievable stuff; Idk how we got through it all with our sanity in tact, but we did.