He affects to believe that he has done nothing to complain about. Simply left a marriage that no longer worked for him, and that everyone else has an inexplicable problem with his behaviour and attitude. Mainly because I have poisoned them against him.
The narrative is delivered with such conviction that it makes the Gettysburgh address look amateurish
Bea, I choked on my lunch when i read your words.... my XH has said EXACTLY the same things.
He can't understand why our (teenage) kids want nothing to do with him, and keeps asking them:
'What have I done WRONG?'
(They are dumbstruck in response.)
He screams that I have poisoned them against him. He rails at me that I am 'appalling', and asks me how I sleep at night.
He is deeply convinced that he is the victim and that we are all 'the problem'.
It's really unbelievable stuff; Idk how we got through it all with our sanity in tact, but we did.