JL, I know exactly where you are coming from. Waiting totally sucks--and it comes to the point where you want to say sh*^ or get off the pot!!!

My H and yours have both said they want to date--but we are still living like we were before they said that. Still hanging out in limbo, and the H's seem to be making very little effort on their parts.

It gets so frustrating sometimes. I want my H home too, but right now, he doesn't want to be here.

It's been almost a month since my H said he wanted to 'date', but still, no date. I'm still hanging like I was before.

The difference is, he threw a little hope my way--(and got rid of slutzilla ) so I guess that's something.

This patience thing totally sucks!!!

DNO