This is the day....Be glad!

[willbwell]

what a strange evening. I get to go out with friends because all of our special needs kids are at a camp together. This is truly a rare opportunity!
We go to a place and seated right before us is a party of 20. Our waitress offers it is not usually this busy but its a going away party. It's h's same CO. I didn't know any of the people( thank goodness) but it was 3 men and more than a dozen women.
Its no wonder!!
Felt the desire to text h and say I had an interesting evening....
I did not.
i had a good time with my gf's
Said to gf's wouldn't that be something if h walked in. This is now how he rolls...
Leave it. I don't want it.

Was supposed to talk with h while d16 at camp. to discuss more financial. he said nothing about it.
Another week goes by. Think he is out of town again, but who knows??

I spoke with accountant today. got some info.
Have been looking into guardianship and ssi when d turns 18. That will be a whole new can of worms...

CS and spousal support is not just typical.

H's sister comes in townon Friday. staying with us. Really don't know if h will stop by to see her. I say nothing.

still doing HW.
going to a good women's group tomorrow night.

feeling better.