Thanks everyone. I am feeling a bit more elated. Yes, it is over. Finally. I feel like I have ran a marathon,
Thanks to everyone for their continued support through this trial and tribulation. I made it. And I survived.
J (the man formerly know as H) has already called me 5 times since we left court. WTF? He left one message that says he just bought the drinks for D's baseball game next week and if I could buy the snacks. Hello...we had this discussion this morning and I said I would. So you leave me a message that you bought drinks? What do you want? A bone? I called my mom and told her about it and she shouted out "I knew it!!!".
So after court I met some co-workers for a good-bye happy hour for another co-worker. Nice getting out with some friends. People were congratulating me on getting it finalized so that was weird to hear and they even bought me congratulatory drinks. I ended up talking with a male co-worker whose divorce became final today too. It was nice to talk to someone. And I felt no guilt about it.
We will see how things go with the refinance. J is supposed to close Tuesday. I will keep my fingers crossed.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"