"So I am going to assume that this could be just a lie."
It's probably not a lie. What you don't understand is how conflicted the WAS can be and clearly your W is very confused.
Continue doing what you want to do as if she wasn't there.
Ok, I will. The thing is she told me shes being more forthcoming and truthful to me then AP. I actually believe this
Another tid-bit is, I understand I can be quite controlling. Mr. Bond helped point this out to me and continues to do so when I post controlling statements.
However, my WAS must be attracted to this in men.
The Om tells her to not say, she is in "her House", he insists she says "I am in THE House", He tells her to not call me her husband, and says you must not say that when you refer to him, I think the US courts might think differently.
He tells her to call his apartment, in his country "Their or our" apartment. He insists she calls him her fiance. Meanwhile she told me when she put his "commitment ring" on his finger, a wave of Doubt and concern over-him overtook her. Oh, and he insisted that she do so.
Finally, she has told him that she is completely separate from me. Does not talk to me and has nothing to do with me in the house...
