Not trying to push you into something you don't feel ready for, but I honestly don't think that rejecting him would make him pine for you. But what the hell do I know?

If she has a "real" activity it absolutely is going to work like that. She can make plans now before he even asks. I just see it as way more chance to go wrong and backslide by going, where I see a positive outcome by not going. And now I can say but what the hell do I know either lol. Oh and say "I am awesome and dont need to go to prove it"

Last edited by Ben2010; 06/19/14 01:08 AM.
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