Im just wondering what good could come out of going to lunch with him. Best case scenario is that he wants to go to lunch with you. IF that is the case, then it would have an even bigger impact to not go. It would be you pulling back a little further from him. Showing him that you arent going to do everything he wants unless you all are together. And then you can look at the other side of it. If you go, then you will more than likely break down at some point during the lunch and have to excuse yourself as stated by claire. I dont know about you but I dont want to break down at all. I would save myself the hurt feelings and not even worry about it.

Last edited by Ben2010; 06/19/14 12:54 AM.
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