Like a moth to flame

[ItHurts]

So you want my advice here Thorn huh? Well you already know what I'm going to say NC NC NC NC NC!!! LOL! It works my friend! As someone said above...you are making it sound like 5 weeks with only two texts...the proper way to think of it is 4 1/2 weeks of NC and your WAW starts to cave...contacting you twice in a short amount of time. So doesn't it stand to reason that you should keep doing EXACTLY what you are doing? It should! I am shocked at how well NC works in fact. As I've told you, my WAW has contacted me no less than 10 times, either in person or via phone messages (that I reply in e-mail to) since she left over a month ago. I have initiated contact with her a whopping ZERO times! Things I notice about my sitch? She still insists on calling when she knows I am only going to reply via e-mail...so why isn't my WAW just e-mailing her issue/question? Because she wants to talk to me that's why. So please, STAY NC...that is my advice...you are trying to turn a positive (two postives in fact since your WAW contacted you twice) into a negative and you shouldn't. You are doing exactly what I think you should be doing. You're getting in her head. That's why she asked "is this easy for you?" Why, of all things, would she ask THAT? Because she thinks you're not really bothered by it as much as she was hoping you'd be. So keep up what you're doing and do not contact her at all. Let her worry about her things...let her be the one to contact you about them. Good job Thorn! 5 weeks is a long time to wait but you got what you set out to get...twice even!! Sounds good to me!