Thanks for your input folks. It helps to know people have been there and bought the t-shirt.
I'm going to have to think about this. There are some, but not all, traits in a dependent personality and passive aggressiveness that I recognise. Basically I think it's all about taking control of your own life, but I'll have to report back later as it's late now and I need to try and get some sleep.
M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner