Things have gone from bad to worse. Yesterday while I was at work h decided again, after being told before about scheduling visitation) to just show up to see d15. Things did not go well, she is calling and texting me at work while I'm in a meeting, saying he's being mean, busted into her room, threatened to take away her phone, our internet, etc. Told her there was nothing I could do about it as I need his permission to do anything. Poor d15 actually had to tell him to leave. Very bizarre behavior.
Threatened that he would make her stay with him in his one room motel for the summer and there was nothing I could do about it.
When d15 let me know he was gone, about 1/2 an hour after he had arrived, I texted him about how inappropriate that was and reminded him this is his daughter. He said he was sorry. He was being mean to her because she was mean to him. REALLLY? Who's the adult here?
Of course d15 was crying when I got home and she doesn't want to see him again. He's really gotten so much worse and I don't understand why he keeps putting us through this. I leave him alone. There's no reason for this.
D5 didn't call him for Father's Day and I guess that's what sparked it because d said he was yelling at her about it and telling her that he's a great dad and he see's her all the time (not sure what world he lives in) and she was terrible for not calling him. In his text to me about it he said, and his exact words - I guess I should just be glad the other 2 texted me. The OTHER TWO. LOL Yeah, your a world class dad. Didn't show up for son's surgery, don't talk to your kids but maybe once a month if that, which is why he doesn't even know our son was rushed to the emergency room on Monday 5 days after surgery due to complications. (He's fine now). Didn't know that d15 had the flu a few weeks ago (that's because he only calls her every one or two weeks, maybe). Yep, that puts you in the award winning dad category.
