Quote: But how long do I let this bit of limbo last? This patience stuff is way too hard!!
Limbo?! It sounds to me like you are making some INCREDIBLE progress in both your personal life, and your relationship!!
It's so tough to see when you're right in the middle of things, but from an outsider's point of view, you're probably exactly where you need to be right now, and heading in the right direction!
You listed SOOO many positives in this last post. I know how tough it is to keep waiting for more, to be where you really want to be, but I think that you're getting there. For my ownself, I'm finding it to be a long-term/lifetime project, but I'm thinking it will all be worth it at the end.
Keep going, my dear, and keep the changes in your life heading in this positive direction!!
JJ
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It sounds to me like you are making some INCREDIBLE progress in both your personal life, and your relationship!! 
